Wednesday, February 18, 2009


We all have them, but we all do not love them. I am fortunate to have a family that is open and honest with each other and when there is conflict we let each other know about it almost immediately. Some families that I know will sit on topics for awhile and when they cannot stand it any longer, will stay how they feel.

Which is better? I am used to my family and do not understand the other way but maybe it works for some families. which way works for you?

Monday, February 16, 2009

moving forward

Okay, so I am healthy now and moving in the right direction and it seems as if for the most part that life is status quo. I know that is difficult to believe since times are so very difficult for people, but how do I convince the rest of the world that I am a new person. I talk to people that have lost an enormous amount of weight only to tell me that they still feel as if they are the person with all the weight on them.

So, do you really change or do you just modify yourself from time to time?