Routines

Okay, still moving, and today I am getting wood floors installed to help with the allergies and because they are very nice!! My boyfriend and I keep on realizing that we do not have routines anymore, it used to be that we spent time together and then did our own thing, well each day is a new adventure and it has been difficult to adjust to the no routine lifestyle. It is not hard adjusting to him, but I am not used to asking for opinions and relying on someone for support, I like it, but it is something that I have to adjust too. I hoping one day that things will settle down, but there is none of that in site, we are doing remodeling, then its planning a wedding then having children, is this what married life is like?