Moving backwards

well last night i stayed at my old place and it was great sleeping in my own bed. I am going to move my bed to my new home, and i will need to learn that that i cannot run back to my old place anytime i feel like it(hopefully it will be rented soon). I was not trying to get away from my boyfriend, i was trying to reconnect with the warm that i felt with my place. I spent a lot of time making it warm and comfortable and I will have to spend the same amount of effort doing that with my new home, guess it just goes with the territory of joing space with the man you love.